This is Jack @ our charity West End Impact we have a project on Thursdays and Sundays where 35-45 people like Jack come into our Community Cafe for a free meal. Jack used to own his own engineering business. In fact he was a very successful businessman and was earning well over £50,000 at his peak 8 years ago. Ok Jack liked a night out with the lads and did start to drink quite a lot with other business associates and clients when trying negotiate a deal or socialising with friends. Jack was married and has two kids who he presently has very little contact with.
You see Jack did make a bad business decision 8 years ago which cost a lot of money and he had to start laying people off in his business. He buried his head in a few pints and got quite aggressive with his wife. She really couldn't cope with that, and arguments started at home, the more arguments the more drink. Then nights out with the lads to get away became more regular. The lads invited him to Vegas to get away for a while where Jack blew even more money to drown his sorrows. His wife started to get fed up of not having as much money as they used to and started to become more and more disillusioned with their relationship. To cut a long story short their marriage broke down and Jack's wife wanted him out for a while so he could re-think his life and take stocks.
Jack got himself a flat but then loneliness kicked in and he kept forgetting to pay bills - debt was spiralling out of control so much that he had no choice but declare himself bankrupt. Drink was the only thing he had to turned to and a habit and regular pattern of drink had been the way to drown his sorrows. Before he knew it the landlord was knocking on the door and the drink wasn't quite hitting the mark any more to bloke out his problems. So with a group of new friends up the street he thought some cannabis wouldn't really do him any harm. Soon Jack was unemployed and in much debt, his wife didn't really want him to see the kids at the moment in the state he was in he was turning into someone that was no longer a good influence on them. Eventually Jack got so desperate that he had to turn to charity for help.
It was pretty embarrassing for Jack to have to come to us for a food parcel and a top up on his gas and electric meter. He came as he wanted advice as he was now on benefits he knew that in a couple of months the Job Centre would put him on a Work Program and he would be expected to do 'Job Search' for 2 hours a day but he didn't have a laptop so he came to use ours. He also needed referring to the local drug and alcohol organisation for help with his spiralling drink problem and he was heading towards having a drug problem too if things hadn't have started to change. On JSA £73.00 he could manage to feed himself but not feed his drink problem too, and when his shoes got worn or he needed a new pair of jeans he had no chance. His washing machine had also broken and the damp patch in his flat was in need of repair but his landlord couldn't afford to do anything. His meter in his flat was eating money at a rate that he couldn't believe. He was usually good at handling money as a businessman but the drink was just shadowing his thoughts and any decisions he was making all became a blur. He was sorry for hurting his wife and kids so badly but just felt so lost. So alone.......
At West End Impact we were able to get him referred for help and he also joined a small discussion group for people who were struggling with alcohol and depression. He got the benefits advice he needed and started to think again about how he could work, he started to find friendship amongst our volunteer team most of whom are Christians and come to our church Morecambe Community Church. He rekindled some childhood memories of Sunday School and felt some peace and hope. He started to give some business advice to our staff team. He started to find purpose with us and a place where help felt accepted no matter what. He felt love again and not as desperate and lonely as he was. He saw a glimmer of hope in his future and he was encouraged to know that he could re-build his life again. Drink was still a problem but as he found other things to fill that gap he started to drink less - he was given advice on how to consolidate his debt and through volunteering felt confident enough to go for a job interview, with a good reference to back him up. He had felt the urge to steal recently just to survive but this interview had stopped that urge and he fortunately did not go down that path. Still there is a long way to go with Jack..........
but would you help Jack. Can you see how easily Jack got to where he is?? Can you see how easily that could happen to you?? Jack came to church on Sunday and let us pray with him - he said he felt so peaceful and has sparked up a special friendship with John an ex-serviceman who has a similar story. Jack and John have got a lot in common but are becoming great friends.
You see people quite easily give money to a child who is suffering great poverty in Africa as it bring a tear to their eye and they get that feeling that they are helping a worthy cause. If you just saw the picture of Jack above you may have thought what a HOBO what a drop out!! You wouldn't have known his story until I told you that he was a very successful business man with a wife and 2 kids. You probably wouldn't have believed me if I had told you that in the last 6 years he has lived a life that has gradually spiralled out of control.
Maybe now though you understand more......
At West End Impact this is just one of our many projects you can see more details about our charity @ www.westendimpact.org.uk and under 'Donations' you can see the many ways to give!!
Our building running costs are presently around £1,200 per month. We also want to do so much more and want to start some supported employment scheme alongside our volunteer program. This will help more like Jack get back into work. We want to start upcycling furniture in our INNOVATE art group to sell and give people purpose and pride. We want to teach people who have little to cook on a budget and so much more - but all these projects can't happen as we don't have the funds yet. Please look beyond your misconceptions of Jack and give to this project even if its just £5
West End Impact is Helping People Giving Hope and Changing Lives but we can't do it without your help so please text WEIM10 and £5 to 70070 today or give any other way you see fit!! Help us break down the barrier that make people feel we are just trying to help the 'undeserving poor' as there are many Jack's in this world who got to where they are because they made one silly mistake and didn't have anyone to help them move forward until they met a charity like West End Impact who helped stop that downward spiral!!
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